Do you have a goal, dream or desire... that's taking forever to come to life?
Do you feel like you're working hard and getting no results?
Do you get sabotaged by fear of failure, fear of rejection... or even fear of success?
Do you have a pattern of dabbling, procrastinating, giving up, changing your mind, getting distracted, getting tired, or never following through?
If so, then this mini course is for you:
LUST FOR LIFE
How to stay turned on about your goals, dreams and desires – even when they're taking f*cking forever.
An orgasmic approach to getting stuff done.
This activation is for women who are DONE with overthinking, burnout & self-sabotage — and ready to achieve their dreams with turn-on, pleasure & ease.
Does this sound like you?
When you're impatient about achieving & receiving your desires,
you create resistance:
Your mindset is focused on what you don't have, instead of having what you want.
Your energy is channeling towards lack instead of abundance.
Your attitude is one of fear, shame, and being a victim to your circumstances
Your embodiment is a feeling of desperation, grasping, and hustling for crumbs.
When you learn to trust & enjoy the journey
your results must naturally follow.
Stop creating resistance to your own desires.
Learn how to get back on your own unique path
Have the confidence to keep going when the going gets tough
Release the overthinking and worrying
Reverse your "bad luck"
And take that leap of faith again and again and again.
In this powerful activation, you’ll learn how to:
- Melt resistance so you can finally receive what you desire
- Stay turned on — even when it’s taking f*cking forever
- Release fear of failure, rejection & success
- Activate your magnetic receiving power
- Manifest with pleasure, instead of desperation
WHAT IT IS NOT
Curious but hesitant?
Let me calm your fears of the awkwardness.
This workshop does not involve:
- nudity
- pu$$y-gazing
- sex-magick (i.e. you will not learn how to manifest via masturbation!)
LOL as much as I approve of all of the above, this lesson involves discussion on video, and written journaling prompts only. Listening and reflecting is all that is required, to re-connect you with the sensual journey of your desires... first-timers, have no fear!
Fifteen 5-minute Lessons to Activate Your Goal-Lust
15 short powerful modules to keep you motivated all the way through the finish line:
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Resistance: How and why we create resistance and why that’s good.
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The Orgasmic Mindset: How to stop creating resistance, and respond in a way that will help you change your set point
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Changing your set-point happens in the "learning zone"
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How to have an orgasmic mindset: 1. What are the things that make it STOP?
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How to have an orgasmic mindset: 2. What are the things that make it GO?
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How to actually apply the Orgasmic Mindset to your goal.
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Create your own turn-on list
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Why you need to do this (AKA what happens when you create “New Relationship Energy” for your goals)
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The number one thing that stops us in sexuality & in our goals
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What to do when it feels like it’s “taking forever”
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A special note for women with ADHD, procrastination, avoidance, and anyone who feels totally stuck when it comes to “taking action”
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How your definition of success is sabotaging you
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Journaling questions to uncover, discover & discard
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Using this work to change your set-point.
For anyone raised as a woman in the patriarchy, anyone with a vulva, or anyone who wants to free their mind, and unlock their Goal-Lust.
Course Details
WHAT'S INCLUDED:
LUST for LIFE is a powerful activation where you will learn how to un-block your energy, and stop resisting the life you desire.
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Two hours of powerful content, organized into fifteen short, 5-minute video lessons for easy learning – get that dopamine reward every time you hit "next"
10-page journaling & mindset workbook, with "Quick Reference Guide" included
This is a DIY course available in your own private online portal, for you to complete in your own time and pace.
For anyone raised as a woman in the patriarchy, anyone with a vulva, or anyone who wants to free their mind, and unlock their Goal-Lust.
⚡ Immediate access to video lessons & 10-page workbook
Hi, I'm Kate O'Connor
Mindset + Erotic Power Coach for Women
I help women heal their invisibility wound, SHINE their light, and create/attract/receive the life of their dreams!
Everything I teach, I have created for myself. From being chronically broke, lonely and depressed for almost a decade, to running a successful business, attracting adoration and support, and exuding unshakable confidence... I have healed, transformed, and alchemized my way to a life of love, abundance and constant surprising delights.
I manifested two beautiful pregnancies at 42 years old, mindsetted my way through a miscarriage, and home-birthed my healthy thriving baby like a badass.
As a survivor of rape, I am a fierce warrior against patriarchal bullshit, slut-shaming and Good-Girl-Conditioning.
As an ADHD Goddess, I have a deep understanding of the curses of an executive-functioning disorder... as well as the gifts and solutions that can help.
As a spiritual, witchy hippie-at-heart, I will help initiate you into connection with your deepest/highest source...
And as a recovering atheist & general all around NERD I can also back that sh*t up with some evidence-based science (if that turns you on).
I have helped my clients manifest and create loving relationships, new homes, better careers, healthier bodies, and hotter orgasms. My clients feel powerful and worthy of their dreams, and know how to call them in.
All of this is possible for you, too.
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